@scottychaos: I would disagree. I think that ordering plants at this time of the year may be a bit of a bet on the part of the buyer, it is not completely their fault if the plant is not in the best condition upon arrival. I have seen people (including myself) ordering plants in the winter and them being fine. It is the responsibility of the seller to pack plants appropriately for the weather conditions, which was not met by the sellers Spooky1 bought from. Beyond that I think that the responsibility falls onto the post office and somewhat on the buyer for ordering at this time of year. The winter just adds to the risks that the buyer always takes when ordering plants from remote sources. I think it is perfectly fine to ship plants in the winter, but might not be a good choice for growers with less experience, who might not be able to nurse plants back to health, if something goes wrong. No one can change what you think or do, I just sharing my ideas on the subject (*meaning I don't want to start a full scale debate*).
Good points..
but there is really one way this whole thing could have been prevented..don't order Nepenthes in January!
I did say the seller bears *some* responsibility..(I called it 80/20 buyer/seller)
But IMO the sellers responsibility should have been:
"sorry, I don't ship Nepenthes to your state until May, because its winter, because I cant control the post office, because nepenthes are tropical, and I cant guarantee their not freezing to death."
That would be a responsible sellers position..
The buyer and seller were both at fault..I happen to blame the buyer more heavily..
if some want to blame the seller more heavily, thats fine I guess..there is clearly blame for both..
how much blame for each is grey area and subjective..
if someone wanted to call it 50/50, I suppose that point could be made..
(Spooky is trying to convince himself the fault is 100% seller and 0% him..well..no one is going to buy that.)
The Post Office really cant be blamed at all though..
they never guarantee keeping mail warm..its not their business to heat mail.
the person using the post office has to take that responsibility, to make sure things dont freeze..
Its just a really really really bad idea to order nepenthes in January..
and its a huge risk..and its very likely they can freeze..
those simple facts cant be disputed..
the reason these plants died isnt because "the seller didnt use a heat pack"..
the reason they died is
because its January!
that cause of death could have been easily avoided..dont order Nepenthes in January..
its very simple really..
Scot