Sadly, I couldn't agree more ...from what ive gathered regia is one of those species that either loves yah or hates yah......i could never to get it to grow but others have found it to be fairly simple to keep going......get it, try it, maybe it will like yah....
D. regia has proven to be a plant that torments me. I killed a few early on - - then I realized I needed to pay attention -- got some to grow well and 'assumed' that I was now back in control. Started taking them for granted - - Bam! Croaked. Since then I've had a number of 'random' deaths - some unexplained - - some weird stuff (had some insect in the basement eat a plant down to the base...)
Given some of the other plants that I've managed to figure out, I'm pretty amazed that this plant still torments me ... but it does ... 