Oh hey, I think that was me that gave you the suggestion on reddit to do the flower dissection.
Here's a link to a thread with my female. She's pretty similar to eymae already, but the uppers could stand to be more interesting, and the lowers might color up a bit. She's super easy to grow too, which should transfer to any offspring.
Looking For (trade) - Looking for Nepenthes pollen
Let me know if you're interested. She doesn't seem to want to stop flowering until she gets pollinated, so there's no big rush.