Starrbinkey,
Jaie, the guy who replied to your post, is actually the chief grower at petflytrap.com, so he really knows his stuff!
read carefully what he has said, and if your plant hasn't already been damaged to much, then you will do just fine! If your plant is going to die, then please, don't take it hard and quit.
There is not a single person on this board who didn't kill their first plant, some of them killed their first plants as 20, 30, 40 and 50 year old people! So your in good company!
Don't give up. Get another one, and keep plugging.